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Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage programme – the self-help alternative to marriage counselling

Want to save your marriage but don’t know how to go about it? Consider the options – either Marriage counselling or an online self-help programme. Marriage counselling  is not always the best solution for couples. Recent research in the UK shows that despite having marital problems, many couples are reluctant to attend counselling sessions.

One of the reasons for this is the perceived loss of control in their relationship. Some couples working with a marriage counsellor report feeling dis-empowered. They think that they have failed and that the counsellor is the only expert who can help them save their relationship.

Marriage counselling may also be difficult for couples who have young children or conflicting work schedules, as marriage counseling sessions often have to be planned weeks in advance.

This is why I have developed a save your marriage programme that can be followed by you in the privacy of your own home, in your own time and at a fraction of the cost of marriage counselling. What’s more, the programme can save your marriage, even if only one of you participates. This could be the best value you have ever got for €47

Rekindle the Spark book format

Rekindle the Spark by Barbara DuffRekindle the Spark programme in book format.
Rekindle the Spark – 10 steps to revitalise your relationship is published by Orpen Press.
Available from all good book stores – €12 or on Amazon.

Podcast of the interview With Barbara Duff by Dublin City Radio

Rekindle the Spark – Save your Marriage programme benefits

Rekindle the Spark – Save your Marriage is an effective alternative to marriage counselling. The programme consists of ten simple steps. Each step explores a topic which is a common cause of relationship problems. Each stage gives an important insight into how to rekindle your relationship.

After completing the Rekindle the Spark – Save your Marriage programme,  you will:

  • understand yourself and your partner better
  • be able to communicate more effectively
  • be able to see issues from the other’s perspective
  • have the tools to handle conflict if it arises
  • be more aware of the danger signs in your relationship
  • know how to recognise and handle your own emotions
  • understand the importance of keeping your own identity
  • rediscover the role of sex and intimacy in your relationship
  • have more fun as a couple
  • know how to keep romance alive
  • know how to be true partners to each other

Why Rekindle the Spark – Save your Marriage can be  more effective than Marriage Counselling

Relationships and LoveRekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage is not just based on theory, but on my twenty years experience of working with couples as a marriage and psychosexual counsellor.

The programme includes many components of marriage counselling, designed so that you can work on it in the privacy of your own home and at your own pace. Each stage gives illustrations and examples of the issue being discussed. You are then given an assignment or exercise to do. This will help you change attitudes or behaviour to help save your marriage. As you go through the programme you build up a skills set to help carry you through whatever relationship challenges you face in the future.

The strength of Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage lies in the fact that you are in charge every step of the way. Each stage gives you new skills – to improve communication in your relationship or to listen more effectively to one another. By following this programme you will be able to rekindle your relationship and as a result, save your marriage.

Yes, it is possible …even though you might seem like strangers right now… even if one of you has had an affair …even  if only one of you wants to participate.

Of course, the best results are achieved if you work on the programme together with your partner. However, you can rekindle the spark in your relationship, even if only one of you participates.

For as you change your behavior and attitudes, the dynamic between you changes. Then your partner will respond in a more positive way. As a result, your marriage problems are solved.

Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage  is the preferred alternative to marriage counselling for many couples. Just think about it – you and your spouse will be able to save your marriage without even leaving home. It has been tried and tested and I can assure you, it works. See the testimonials below.



Rekindle the Spark Save your Marriage program testimonials“We thought that the fire of our love had died, that we had reached the end of our lives together. But now that spark has been rekindled. The energy and excitement are back!.  Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage definitely works. ”   Mary and Joe, Dublin

save your marriage - paula“We were probably heading for a divorce. The Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage programme has helped us find our own inner strength to handle our issues without having constant rows. We know there will be other challenges ahead but now we have the skills to deal with them…” Paula, Kentucky

Rekindle the spark -murphies“We had big communication problems. Now we are a much happier couple and that is reflected in our home and in our children. We have learned to listen to each other and to them. Thanks to Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage, we have indeed saved our marriage!” Frank and Janet, Houston, Tx.



Take action today

This programme is usually priced at €97. For a limited time, you can purchase it for just €47. 


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At €47, the Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage programme represents real value for money.

This is what happens when you order TODAY.

Stage One of Rekindle the Spark will be emailed to you immediately. Then, another Stage will arrive at the same time every week for the next 10 weeks until you have completed the programme. Dividing Rekindle the Spark in this way helps you to benefit fully from each Stage.

As you work through the 61 pages of case studies, tips, questions and exercises you will, I hope, gradually recreate the bond you once had and get your marriage back on track.

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