Relationships and Love

Great relationships don't just happen; learn how to create yours today…

Relationship, Love & Communication Advice – Want to save your relationship, but don’t know how?

Welcome to Relationships and Love – one of the world’s best-loved relationship advice sites. Discover the secrets to a happy marriage with Barbara Duff. Find free advice on relationships and love.

I have helped hundreds of people from all around the world find happiness in love and marriage. My work can also help you.

The relationship tips you find here are practical and easy to apply. They have evolved from my more than 20 years research and work as a psychosexual therapist and relationship counsellor.

Select the option that best suits you and rekindle the love you once shared with your partner.



  • The 10 Secrets to a Happy and Long Lasting Relationship. This Amazon Kindle ebook identifies ten key areas to help you communicate and love more fully. Essential reading for all couples, young or old. Read this book, take the quizzes and watch your relationship grow.
  • Rekindle the Spark – Save your Marriage Online Programme, This highly successful online programme is chosen by most of my clients from around the globe. It is a self-help alternative to marriage counselling. Here you get the best relationship advice on how to improve your marriage. You learn the essential steps to effective communication. You learn how to love and how to listen, how to talk without anger, how to appreciate each other. This is a must-have if you want to rekindle your relationship.
  • Rekindle the Spark programme in book format.
    Rekindle the Spark – 10 steps to revitalise your relationship is published by Orpen Press.
    Available from all good book stores – €12 or on Amazon.

Most couples seeking relationship advice have experienced similar problems in their relationships. This is irrespective of age, orientation, nationality or creed. Their questions include:

  • How can we communicate better?
  • How can I get my partner to listen to me?
  • Why can he/she not see things my way?
  • I feel so angry all the time – how can I change that?
  • Where has all the fun and romance gone?

Any of these questions resonate with you? You can access the skills required to resolve these issues by following my expert relationship advice. I can help you rekindle the spark you once had and save your marriage.

Great relationships don’t just happen, learn to love and communicate more fully today…

You are more powerful than you think –

In my work with couples over the past twenty years, I have been constantly impressed by the improvement in a relationship after quite small changes in behavior and perception. Even if just one of you changes, there is a hugely beneficial knock-on effect on the dynamic between the two of you. You communicate better and start to understand one another more fully. Then your love will blossom.

The problems in an unhappy marriage will not suddenly resolve overnight. BUT, once you read The 10 Secrets to a Happy and Long Lasting Relationship or follow the Rekindle the Spark – Save Your Marriage program, the outlook becomes really positive. Why? For three reasons:

  1. Taking action makes you feel better – you have taken the first step to rekindle your relationship
  2. Every stage of the program contains simple techniques to make your relationship happier
  3. You realize that this is the best relationship advice you can find – it is practical and well structured

No doubt you want to save your marriage and develop a strong bond with your spouse. No doubt you know that this requires dedicated time and energy. The good news is that now you can stop wishing and wanting things to get better. You can use your time and energy to help save your relationship.

This is why I have created this website – to offer you the best advice to resolve your relationship problems and build a happy, fulfilling and long-lasting bond with your partner.

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Relationships and Love Blog

Feel free to browse and explore this site and visit our Blog – a library of articles on how to be happy in relationships and love. You can browse through a wide range of topics from new approaches in marriage counseling, to dealing with infidelity, domestic violence, lack of trust and other relationship issues.

So stop wishing and waiting for things to get better in your relationship. Take action today.